Anyways, we argue. The secret's out. We argue pretty often. It doesn't last long, but we're (um, I'm) not that good at saving my feelings for appropriate situations, so we usually hash it out right away.
So, one of the things I'm worried about with this trip to India is, Where are we going to fight? We're sharing a room with the kids. We have a crazy schedule, where we will never be alone. We are leading a team of 15 people, and while we don't have to fake eternal bliss, we don't want to make everyone uncomfortable.
I guess we could curb the arguing, but the jet lag/small children/team of Americans/700 Indian students/hectic schedule combo, I'm just trying to be realistic.
These are the things that keep me up at night.